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The engagement periodThe concept of an engagement period may have begun in 1215 at the Fourth Lateran Council, headed by Pope Innocent III, which decreed that "marriages are to be ... announced publicly in the churches by the priests during a suitable and fixed time, so that if legitimate impediments exist, they may be made known."[1][2] The modern Western form of the practice of giving or exchanging engagement rings is traditionally thought to have begun in 1477 when Maximilian I, Holy Roman Emperor gave Mary of Burgundy a diamond ring as an engagement present.[3][4]
In contemporary Western culture, many couples have an engagement period of six months to a year, which is spent planning for their wedding. It is not uncommon for couples to have a lengthy engagement, often cohabitating, possibly without setting a date for their marriage.[6] However, long-distance engagements also exist, often signifying primarily a general desire for eventual marriage, rather than a period of preparation for marriage. This is sometimes necessary for couples living in different countries, as some countries require a formal relationship before allowing residents' future spouses to immigrate. For example, in the United States, the K1 Visa allows a fiancé(e) of a US citizen to reside in the United States for up to 90 days before marriage.[7] Engagement ringsIn the United States, Canada, and the United Kingdom, an engagement ring is worn on the fourth finger of the left hand; the custom in Continental Europe and other countries is to wear it on the right hand. This tradition is thought to be from the Romans, who believed this finger to be the beginning of the vena amoris ("vein of love"), the vein that leads to the heart.[citation needed] Romantic rings from the time of the Roman Empire and from as far back as 4 AD often resemble the Celtic Claddagh symbol (two hands clasping a heart) and so it is thought that this was used as some symbol of love and commitment between a man and a woman. Some others suggest that the rings could be symbolically linked to slave shackles, and thus symbolize the future bondage of husband and wife. However, this is all speculation. Engagement partiesOccasionally the engaged couple will have an engagement party. Traditionally the party is hosted by the fiancée's parents. Usually it is a relatively informal affair and only hors d'œuvres and drinks will be served. Traditionally, a speech is made by the couple, one or more of their parents, or both.
Related termsFiancé(e)A man who is engaged to be married is called his partner's fiancé; a woman similarly engaged is called her partner's fiancée. These words are pronounced identically in English; the separate feminine form exists because of the inflectional morphology of grammatical gender in French, where the term originated. The term fiancé(e) is also sometimes used as a euphemism for a live-in lover, as was particularly common in tabloid newspapers during the 1990s. Image:1815-regency-proposal-woodcut.gif Classic "one-knee" proposal, ca. 1815 ProposalEngagement is most often initiated by a proposal of marriage, or simply a proposal. The proposal often has a ritual quality, involving the presentation of the engagement ring and a formalized asking of a question such as "Will you marry me?" It is traditionally the man's task to propose to the woman, often down on one knee, but this is no longer universal. In Ireland the 29th of February is said to be the one day (coming round only once every four years) when a woman can propose to her partner. In the United States, it is traditional to call friends and family members immediately after the proposal has been accepted. BetrothalEngagement is similar to betrothal, and the two terms are sometimes used interchangeably. However, betrothal often refers to agreements involving not only the couple but their families; the concept sometimes has a connotation of arranged marriage. Furthermore, betrothals, though they can be broken, often have binding legal implications lacking in engagements. Breach of PromiseIn some jurisdictions, until the 20th century, it was possible for a woman (but almost never a man), to sue if an engagement was broken, based on denial of the chance to "establish herself" and possible damage to her reputation. End notes
See alsoda:Forlovelse de:Verlöbnis eo:Fianĉiĝo fr:Fiançailles hi:वाग्दान it:Promessa di matrimonio he:אירוסין nl:Verloving ja:婚約 no:Forlovelse pl:Zaręczyny sq:Fejesa fi:Kihlaus sv:Förlovning zh:訂婚
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